JUST DO IT!

JUST DO IT!


Home


Becky Oludayo Peleowo

Jul 11, 2024

Share: Centered Image            
I always waited for the right time to write especially after having my second child. My walls were often decorated with sticky notes to remember my to-do list and my year planner is rarely filled with anything despite its yearly replacement until I joined the Cmoni writing contest.
Well, it wasn't a sudden transformation. Thank goodness I loved to read so, I was reading more than I was writing on the platform. We had a writing retreat and I found myself writing more than I used to. Before then, my last poem was dated April 28, 2017. I thought I had permanent writer's block. First, I blamed marriage, then childbearing, and then the life of a working, full-time mum but one piece of advice from the 2022 Cmoni Summer Writing Retreat kept ringing in my head - 'You don't have to write it all. You can start with a line per day. Just write frequently. Write something every day! ' But even that seemed too much of a task. /
The pile of laundry glared at me from the corner in which I squeezed them. Unknown to me, my first son Jojo had smeared the freshly scrubbed tiles with palm oil and his faithful accomplice in rascality, and my second son Nif, has started to distribute the stains evenly in the parlour. That was the exact time I started to put my pen to paper to scribble a new idea for my story./
Oh my gosh! Will I ever get to write something down?/
Every day I get new ideas but because I don’t pen them down, I tend to forget. So many conceived ideas for write-ups have became impossible. Many of the great articles I had written and completed in my head were never born. Numerous thought-out, mind-blowing poems became a mirage and I plunged into a state of melancholy, reading so much from other people without having much to show myself.
/
Often, writers experience a block - a period when inspiration fails to become words, but I discovered my challenge was never a block but procrastination. So I decided to carry a diary in my tote bag. My tote bag contained all my essentials for a day’s outing especially when I find myself in unplanned places. After all, it is said that, “desperate times call for desperate measures”./
The reason for walking about with a diary is simple. Anytime a new idea pops in, I would just have to bring out my diary and pen the new idea down./
Ideas, I have discovered, come from our daily routine; washing plates, cooking, in the marketplace, and even in the toilet. Funny, isn’t it? Today, while the priest dictated his sermon, an idea popped in and this article was born. I wrote just a few lines, read from others later in the day and completed this beautiful piece at midnight. Of course, I had my earphones pouring music from my inspirational playlist into my subconscious. This works for me when I need to ease stress.
An article on Medium opines that we often want a perfect essay that we overuse big words and expressions which makes our writing too stiff and boring. The writer prided himself on his ability to write 480 000 words a month without running out of ideas. You don’t have to make it complex. Keep it simple like tweets on X but engaging like the comments that come after the tweets. Lol. My frequent frolicking on X paid off after all.

In one night, I have taken a giant step and I don't plan to retrace my steps, instead, I'm leaping forward into writing one essay or a poem of about 500 words a day and if you are like my previous self, drop the excuses and join my train. You too can do it!

Don't wait for the right time. JUST DO IT!

Photo Credit: Pixabay

Related Posts



Hush Don't Say a Word!

(*Image: Edited with Canva) I love to talk! Really, I love to talk but I…


A Christmas Breakfast - (Heartbreaks are real yet true love exists.)

20-08-2012 Dear Sizwe, Three types of husbands cheat - The one who loves someone else…


Bitch

Maya his girlfriend accepted his marriage proposal the day Zane brought Bitch home. “Babes, what’s…


Hidden Millionaire

I accompanied Maami to my cousin's wedding on her insistence that I should reduce my…


Love Marriages and the Changing World

Perhaps I am going bananas! After all, subtle and extreme insanity is now a trend.…


Lost

A song to the ones who are lost A song to the victims of war…


A Letter to Mama on Valentine's Day

Hello Mama, it's me calling Pause, listen, I need your attention, I've heard you constantly…


The Virtue Called Self-Love

Can one ever get enough of Self Love? Self Love encompasses self awareness and self…


Second-Hand Wife

“What’s your name?“ “My name?“ “No o, your mother's name ni. Your name, of course!”…


Iyaniwura - For Mum

How much do I pay For those fragile months my life was in your hands?…


Why Nursing Mothers are going Crazy over Tom Brown.

I'm also crazy about Tom brown. Why? You may ask. Well, isn't the name cute,…


African Traditions and Progressive Ideologies

“I am not African because I was born in Africa but because Africa was born…


Make a Sweet Bowl of Tom Brown

Tom Brown Recipe Ingredients ½ derica of Guinea corn ½ derica of yellow corn ½…


How to be a Relevant African Mum in the 21st Century

This morning my husband jokingly told me I was too African because I was of…


Five Stress Relief Tips to Keep Your Sanity

I wrote recently on how to be relevant as a 21st Century African Mum and…


5 Fun Indoor Activities that Keep the Kids Busy

If like me, you are used to hearing your little ones say, "we're bored" or…


THROES (A Story of Betrayal and Hope)

“Of the many things she felt when the midwife handed her the baby, love was…


Sayings of the Seven Sages

Give heed to our words O little child in the variable world We the seven…


The You in You

There's something in YOU That makes YOU the peculiar YOU. That YOU which is in…


A Good Student - A French Poem

Un bon professor est comme une bougie Qui se consomme en illuminant le chemin pour…


Happily Ever After

Fairytales intrigue me "Happily Ever After" Scripted stories to quench love's thirst But some realities…


Mon Petit Ange (A rhyme to make a baby burp)

Burp! Burp!! Baby Burp!!! Down the throat lane. Burp! Burp!! Burp!!! Ease away all pain.…


Why Your Little Ones Should Read Often

Three summers ago, I stumbled on this awesome bookstore that delivers books in bulk and…


Mum, Get a Life!

Mothers should have their own identities aside maternal roles. Mental issues like PTSD (Post Traumatic…


Pancake in a Minute.

Have you tried to make pancakes with an African flavour? - Dry Chilli Powder! Try…


Thy Pride, O Woman!

Woman! Woman! Woman! What is thy pride, O Woman? Woman, Skeletal structure strutting our street,…


10 Simple Kitchen Hacks You Wish You Knew

So, let's dive straight into this: 1. Simmer Carrots in Tomato sauce if you think…


Who is Buchi's Father?

Ndidi leaned on the steel parapet railing of the Third Mainland Bridge. The chilly breeze…


It's Ok not to be Ok!

I always waited for the right time to write especially after having my second child.…


Bebe’s Day Out

“Ouch, Maman you stepped on my foot! You should say sorry?“ Bébé spoke to me…


Ghosted!

Salamatu, where are you? Where on earth's crust did you hide yourself? You said you…


Catching a Phone Thief

Whenever I encounter an issue that hinges on morality and values, I hear my mother's…


Rewrite the Stars

If some kids could change their destiny, many would wish they weren't born to certain…


How Long More?

How long more, the nines to fives the short-lived snores warmth from the wives all…


Ginger Your Swagger - DAY 1

Gather here African Parents Join me on this journey in discovering amazing herbs that are…


How to Get Juice out of your Lemons

You need some lemon juice quick and fast? Here are some ways to get juice…


WHEN LIFE GIVES YOU Lemons - DAY 2

So we continuer our journey on herbal heroes and today the spotlight is on: A…


TAGIRI, THE MAGIC PLANT - DAY 3

For Day 3 of exploring herbs, we would be examining a special herb called Christmas…

Centered Image